Rule 17: Be attractive

Famous Nigerian Hip-Hop Star,Olu Maintain 

There
is no doubt about it, and statistics back it up, handsome people get on better
than those less fortunate.  Handsome
people have to work less hard to get on. 
But what makes someone attractive, handsome?  If you look at someone you consider
attractive, you will be hard pressed to see what it is that they’ve got that
makes them so good looking. 
Attractiveness, if we ignore the obvious physical impairments such as
buck teeth or a warty nose – all of which can be corrected – is very hard to
define.  Take any Hollywood star, such as
Liza
Minelli
, Woody Allen, Julie Roberts, Sean Penn, who aren’t
classically good looking and we can see that they have charisma, charm,
magnetism, a larger-than-life attitude. 
They come right out at you. They have life, presence, drama, power and
personality.

You
too must have these things.  They are
easier to acquire than looks anyway. 
Being attractive is all part of this Rule.  If you dress well, pay attention to your
grooming, cultivate that smile, look good and cool at all times and come across
as friendly, warm, articulate and caring you will also come across as
attractive and good looking. Looks are all in the smile and the eyes.  Smiles that light up a room are magnetic and
powerful.  Eyes that twinkle and are full
of life are enough to make us think the whole face is good looking.

“Looks are all in the
smile and the eyes.  Smiles that light up
a room are magnetic and powerful.  Eyes
that twinkle and are full of life are enough to make us think the whole face is
good looking”.

Attractiveness
is also about posture and position.  If
you slump you give off an aura of gloom and depression.  This is unattractive and not good looking.
Your
walk should be erect, proud, assured.  So
should your handshake.  Everything about
you should be up and open, happy and confident. 
This is attractive.  Your grooming
should be faultless, your dress sense superb, your style quirky but suave, your
whole demeanor splendid and outstanding. 
This is attractive.
You
do not:
·                   
Slouch
·                   
Slump
·                   
Be
scruffy.
You
do:
·                   
Get
anything fixed that can be fixed that would be considered unattractive – warts,
bad breath, bad teeth, and poor eyesight (stop squinting for God’s sake and get
some proper glasses!).
(Excerpts from THE
RULES OF WORK by Richard Templer Read “How to be Cool like an LL-Cool Jay” from The Rules tomorrow on Asabeafrika)








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